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Fighting the Mom Guilt Monster this Mother’s Day

Fighting the Mom Guilt Monster this Mother’s Day

While TV ads and hallmark cards often suggest that all “good” mothers want to spend Mother’s Day with their families, I am here to tell you otherwise. Most moms with young kids that I know just want some guilt free, luxurious alone time. To simply 

Why Does my 2 Year Old have an Imaginary Friend?

Why Does my 2 Year Old have an Imaginary Friend?

Meet Bobby: he is approximately 2 inches tall, has grey hair, blue eyes and wears train pajama pants. Bobby likes to run fast and he also like to hide in things – like pillows, snack cups and avocados. He can even go into other people’s 

Homemade Kinetic Sand for Toddlers

Homemade Kinetic Sand for Toddlers

Homemade kinetic sand is made up of oil, cornstarch and sand. These ingredients turn the sand into a crumbly claylike material. So you can mold kinetic sand similarly to how you can mold wet sand, but it doesn’t have the weight and moisture of wet sand.

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Homemade Kinetic Sand Ingredients

I got the idea to make kinetic sand from Tinkergarten. My son is enrolled in a local Tinkergarten group, which is an amazing child led exploration class/group that meets once a week outdoors. Even if your child is not enrolled in a class though, you can still access their site and read their many posts on fun DIY activities. 

So, to make kinetic sand, Tinkergarten recommends using –

  • Sand
  • Cornstarch and
  • Baby oil 

I saw other recipes online that said you could use canola oil, but I opted for baby oil since it is composed of mineral oil (which means it won’t go rancid. This is important if you want to keep your kinetic sand around for awhile!).

I bought a 50lb bag of “Play Sand” from the Hardware Store (Ace) for about $5, and the cornstarch and the baby oil at the grocery store. And those were only a couple dollars or so each. 

Next time I need some more sand though, I will probably ask someone at the hardware store if they have a finer ground sand. The play sand works just fine, but I feel like a finer ground sand would feel extra soothing!

You will also need a big bowl or a large bin. Ideally making and playing with the sand outside is preferable (it can get a bit messy), but it’s still too cold out where we are so we just decided to bring the outside in!

play sand for homemade kinetic sand

Homemade Kinetic Sand Recipe

As far as a recipe is concerned, I don’t think you need to be too exact with the cornstarch, baby oil and sand ratio. You can just keep adding as you mix to get your desired consistency. 

I used Eating Richly’s recommendation of a 5:3:1 ratio to get started (2.5 cups of sand, 1.5 cups of cornstarch and 1/2 cup of oil). I ultimately ended up adding more cornstarch and baby oil, but it’s really up to you! 

This is also an easy recipe for toddlers to put together! My 2 year old had so much fun adding and mixing all of the ingredients. 

toddler making homemade kinetic sand

Ways to Play with Homemade Kinetic Sand

Kinetic sand offers an amazing open-ended play opportunity. And open-ended play helps little minds exercise imagination, creativity, problem solving and flexible thinking skills!

Additionally, you really don’t need any special tools. My toddler and I simply grabbed some measuring cups, spoons and toys from around the house to use in the sand. 

Toddlers naturally, or with a little bit of encouragement, will explore sand in the following ways;

  • Stamping (using cooking cutters)
  • Hammering/Flattening/Smoothing (using the bottom of a measuring cup or drinking cup to flatten and smooth sand)
  • Molding (using the kinetic sand like clay to shape balls and mounds – this provides a good opportunity for kids to engage in pretend play. The sand becomes anything they want it to be!)  
  • Transferring sand from one bowl to another (using a spoon or measuring cup)
  • Pretend Play (incorporating other toys into sand play, like small cars or figurines)

toddler playing with homemade kinetic sand

Benefits of Homemade Kinetic Sand Play for Toddlers

  • Sensory play

The feel of the sand can be very soothing for kids. This extra sensory element is very engaging and can help kids stay focused on their play. 

  • Pretend play

As previously mentioned, open-ended and pretend play are great to help kids exercise their imaginations and creativity. They also learn new ways to use tools and everyday items. 

  • Parallel play

For younger toddlers around age 2, offering up a bowl or two of kinetic sand can be a great way to encourage some parallel play. Young toddlers are usually not yet engaging in direct play with one another, but giving them opportunities to mingle through parallel play can help them get comfortable with social activities. You can read more about toddler social development in my posts on Shy Toddlers and Pandemic Babies and Supporting Their Social Development

toddler parallel play with homemade kinetic sand

  • Independent Play 

Offering some homemade kinetic sand can also be a great activity to introduce during independent playtime. For more on this topic, you can read my post on How to Encourage Independent Play.

Did this homemade kinetic sand work for your toddler? Say hi and let me know in the comments below 🙂

Simple Easter Egg Fillers for Toddlers

Simple Easter Egg Fillers for Toddlers

Easter egg fillers for toddlers can be super simple to put together! In fact, after getting a bag of empty easter eggs at the thrift store for $2, I simply walked around the house and poked through the pantry to find some no fuss fillers. 

Pandemic Babies and Their Social Development

Pandemic Babies and Their Social Development

Babies who were born shortly before or after the COVID-19 pandemic are now wild little toddlers! But while completely wild at home, some of them exhibit some social apprehensions. People often use the term “COVID babies” or “pandemic babies” for these kiddos who hide behind 

The Best Free Resource for Toddler Parents

The Best Free Resource for Toddler Parents

The local children’s library is the best free resource for toddler parents! Especially as a stay at home mom during the week, I am always looking for ways to connect my son to nurturing people and places outside of our home. And the library has become our favorite place to find this connection.  

The Benefits of Local Children’s Libraries

If you are not familiar with your local library, let me give you a few reasons to drop in and see what your library has to offer! In addition to helping your toddler develop a love for reading and its accompanying benefits, libraries offer some other amazing resources.

children's library with free resources for toddler parents
 

1. Children’s Librarians are Gems

Every children’s librarian I have ever met has been incredibly kind, helpful and welcoming! Every time we walk into our local library, the librarian greets us and says a special little hello to my toddler.

These librarians have also picked out car and truck books for my toddler after learning of his passion for vehicles. They have an amazing knowledge of the book collections and know exactly what book to hand a toddler!

Our local librarian has also connected us to some wonderful resources. For example, she gave us some kits the other day that are a part of the library’s Ready for Kindergarten program. This is a program for parents and kids aged 0-4 to help them develop the skills they need to be ready for kindergarten.

Ready for Kindergarten free resource for toddler parents

Above all, I’m so grateful that our local librarian is someone in the community my son is able to connect with on a regular basis. Because my toddler is not in any kind of daycare, I really value anyone and anyplace he builds a relationship with outside our home. Libraries are such a great introduction to showing kids what it means to be a part of a local community!

2. Weekly Story Time

I love taking my 2 year old to our library’s weekly Story Time. I think most children’s libraries offer a story time, so it’s worth checking in with your local library! 

At our library, it is designed for 2-4 year olds, but I took my son starting around 18 months and sometimes there are kids older than 4 as well. I just like getting my toddler around some other kids and letting him be a part of a group. So Story Time is our jam. 

We also usually try to arrive a little bit before the Story Time starts, so my toddler can do a little drawing with the crayons they have out and mingle with other kids. As a bonafide covid baby as well as a toddler who does not attend daycare, my 2 year old is still slowly warming up to social settings and the library is the perfect place to do this. You can see my post on Shy Toddlers and 5 Ways to Support Their Social Development for more ideas on this topic. 

Additionally, I love Story Time because I just get to sit there and enjoy having my toddler on my lap without having to entertain him or read to him myself. Not that I don’t love reading to him, but we do it A LOT, so it’s nice to just luxuriate in having someone else read to him. 

And the books the librarians choose are always really sweet. They read 3 books during the story time that all have a common theme. There is also usually an art activity afterwards that is related to the theme. And I’m always so impressed by all the prep the librarians do for these activities. Did I say I love children’s librarians already? 

free art activities for toddlers at local children's library

3. Borrowing and Returning Books

Borrowing and returning books is a great concept to teach kids! They learn that they do not have to own something to enjoy it, as well as how a communal resource system works. 

Additionally, you don’t have to go out and buy a bunch of books. And then have those books sit in your house forever and eventually collect a lot of dust. It’s just a relief to be able to purge a whole shelf of books and return them to the library when we’re done with them, since our house is already exploding with toddler clothes and toys. 

So we love checking out a handful of books, spending a couple of weeks with them, and then taking them back and picking out new ones. While yes, sometimes there is a little bit of food stuck to board book pages from the previous reader, it’s never enough to dissuade us from using the library! 

We like to store and display our library loot on our homemade Montessori style bookshelf, so that my toddler can fully appreciate and access the books until it’s time to return them. For more ideas on toddler home design you can check out my post on How to Create a Toddler Friendly Home

library books on toddler bookshelf

Browsing for books at the library also gives toddlers an opportunity to identify their interests. Since there are so many different books about various things, you really start to see what your particular child is drawn to. In my child’s case, I think we have checked out nearly every book about cars and trucks the library has! 

What Does Your Local Library Have to Offer?

In a world that often feels unwelcoming and cold, I find children’s libraries to be wonderful little sanctuaries of joy and delight! The wonderful librarians, the fun Story Times and the endless supply of books make it well worth a parent’s while to see stop in and visit the local children’s library. 

Do you utilize any of your local library’s resources? What is your favorite thing about the library? Say hi and share any thoughts in the comments below! 

Check out this article with images 6 Best Children’s Libraries in the United States or 13 Awesome Children’s Libraries to get excited about children’s libraries! While our local library certainly isn’t as extravagant as those shown in these articles, we still love it!  

For other toddler activities, see my DIY Playdough Recipe and DIY Toddler Toys for Creative Play posts. 

Raising Little Boys and Thoughts on Andrew Yang’s ‘Why Boys and Men are Failing’ Episode

Raising Little Boys and Thoughts on Andrew Yang’s ‘Why Boys and Men are Failing’ Episode

As a mother of a 2 year old boy, Andrew Yang’s recent episode on his podcast ‘Forward’ piqued my interest; “Why Boys and Men are Failing”. You can also watch the conversation between Yang and Zach Graumann on YouTube. I found this an odd and intriguing topic 

Easy Pumpkin Recipe for Toddlers

Easy Pumpkin Recipe for Toddlers

Pumpkin Yogurt Parfait Ingredients Directions Pumpkin: Nutrition & Benefits This week’s recipe is inspired by my toddler’s love for pumpkin pie! On more than one occasion, he has woken up in the middle of the night screaming, “pumpkin pie!”. He just loves it so much. 

Raising Global Citizens for a Better Tomorrow

Raising Global Citizens for a Better Tomorrow

I was going to write this week’s post on pumpkin muffins for toddlers… but I can’t write about pumpkin muffins this week. There is something far more important to address that concerns me as a mother and as a human. And that is the war that started with Russia’s invasion of Ukraine on February 24, 2022.

a map of Russia and Ukraine

Since that initial invasion, a little over a week has passed and people are fleeing Ukraine. Their lives have been completely upended, and too many people have already died. Some people are stuck in Ukraine, some are staying to fight, some are traveling long distances to cross the border, and many are looking back at loved ones they had to leave behind. These are just ordinary everyday people, like you or me. 

This is not the first time a group of people has had to endure tragedy, violence and aggression; but it doesn’t quite seem real in 2022. It really seems like we should have progressed past this kind of warfare by now. How does a man like Putin exist?  

Recognizing our Common Humanity

I imagine having to take my 2 year old from our home and say goodbye to my husband (all men between 18-60 are banned from leaving Ukraine), not knowing whether I would see him again or not. And not even knowing if my child and I could safely make it out of the country. Not to mention, what would we do if and when we got out? Where would we go? How would we live?

If you haven’t watched any of the footage or listened to any interviews with those being impacted in Ukraine, I encourage you to do so. The Daily podcast offers several episodes that are both informative and heartbreaking, and BBC and NPR share current videos and articles.

A war or any tragic conflict, whether on a global scale or even on a personal scale, has a way of bringing the most important things into laser focus. A lot of things I preoccupy myself with suddenly feel frivolous. And I have to ask myself, what is truly important in this life?

As much as I am focused on the tragedy of the situation, I am also trying to catch sight of any glimmers of hope. And I do see tiny glimmers. There are people around the world expressing unified support for Ukraine and condemning the War. Even the European Union has acted swiftly and collaboratively imposing sanctions against Russia. So these displays of unity and humanitarianism give me hope.

letter blocks spelling out humanity

Raising My Child to be a Global Citizen

So as I continue to ingest media coverage on Ukraine, I think about what I can do. And honestly, it doesn’t feel like much and it isn’t much. I am reading about these tragedies from the comfort of my home, 5,000 plus miles away.  

But this tragedy has got me thinking about how I want to raise my son. It sounds so cliche, but as parents we have this amazing opportunity to try and help better society and help humanity evolve by nurturing our children.

And while I know my 2 year old isn’t going to solve any of Ukraine’s problems today, maybe he can be part of a future generation that will help prevent such crises from arising in the first place. So I am thinking about how I can encourage him to identify not only as an individual and an American citizen, but also as a global citizen.

The United Nations describes global citizenship as follows,

The term can refer to the belief that individuals are members of multiple, diverse, local and non-local networks rather than single actors affecting isolated societies. Promoting global citizenship in sustainable development will allow individuals to embrace their social responsibility to act for the benefit of all societies, not just their own.

multicultural group of people holding hands

So rather than thinking about what clothes or toys my son may “need” this week, I am thinking about how to raise a global citizen. And how to model what that means.

Children are Growing up in a Globalized World

I think we are all inevitably and naturally moving towards a global citizenship orientation. The world is rapidly changing and developing, and we are living in an increasingly globalized world. 

PIIE defines globalization as follows,

Globalization is the word used to describe the growing interdependence of the world’s economies, cultures, and populations, brought about by cross-border trade in goods and services, technology, and flows of investment, people, and information. 

We are becoming more connected to people around the world than ever before. For example, it’s rare to see someone without a cell phone these days. Even young kids. And those phones have internet and social media. News travels fast. Videos go viral. And everyone can share their opinions and experiences on the worldwide web.

world map with 2 phones across from each other and touching hands

And these past couple of years, the COVID-19 pandemic has shown us that when it comes down to it, we are all here on the same planet and can all be affected by a singular event. And while it is unclear what the situation in Ukraine will become, it very well could turn into something that impacts many countries around the world.

How to Raise Our Children as Global Citizens

So how do we teach our kids to embrace this responsibility of being part of a globalized world and become global citizens? How do I raise my child to consider people across all cultures and countries? To exercise caution and skepticism, but also to be open and curious? How do I teach him how to consume news critically, and spread news thoughtfully? And how to recognize his own privilege and watch out for those who may not have the same? 

1. Stay up to Date on International Affairs

I think a fundamental first step to being a global citizen and raising one, is staying informed on world affairs. While my son is 2 and I am obviously not going to be talking politics or war tragedies with him, I can make sure I am consuming news thoughtfully myself. So that when my son does get older and starts asking questions, I have a way to answer them.  
 
Sometimes I ask myself, what good does it do to read about tragedies like the Russia Ukraine War from the comfort of my own home? How does it really help anyone? But we all start somewhere. The more I learn, the more likely I am to get involved in some way. The more likely I am to make international awareness a part of my son’s life. And who knows then what he will do with that awareness as he gets older. 

2. Foster Multicultural Awareness

I have been struck by photographs shared by media organizations like NPR recently, of people holding up signs at railway stations for refugees. Signs saying things like, “1 room for mother + child”. How amazing that these people are welcoming strangers in need into their homes. 

While it is true that we unfortunately live in a world where we have to be on alert for potentially dangerous individuals, I have to remind myself that most people are just decent humans who want to live a happy life. And I want my son to recognize this as well.

a wall with portraits of people from all different cultures

Some ideas on ways to foster multicultural awareness;

  • Get to know your local community.
  • Get to know communities outside your local community, through travel and education.
  • Get to know people of all different economic and cultural backgrounds.
And when travel isn’t an option, I like GVI’s suggestion to learn about other cultures by going out to eat at restaurants offering different types of cuisine. Or trying to cook a traditional dish from another country at home. And in this age of information, we have access to so much information worldwide via the web. 

3. Encourage Collaboration

GVI lists the following foundational skills that global citizens nurture to create a global culture of collaboration;

  • Problem-solving skills
  • Decision-making skills
  • Critical thinking skills
  • Communication skills
 
These are skills we can support and encourage in our children at home from a young age. We can talk to them thoughtfully, ask them questions (even if they can’t talk back yet), listen to them and encourage exploration and curiosity. 
 
We can let them engage in Independent Play as a way to build their problem solving and critical thinking skills. And we can create Toddler Friendly Homes to encourage independence and decision making skills. Additionally, we can acknowledge their experiences and Big Feelings to encourage self awareness and communication. We can also play games with them that teach collaboration. 

4. Encourage Gratitude

When it comes to being a global citizen, exercising gratitude and empathy also come to mind. When we feel deep gratitude for our lives, we learn to honor the value of others’ lives as well and we have empathy. And empathy helps us to relate to one another and find compassion and a common ground on which we can all stand peacefully.

I was prompted to consider this aspect of gratitude and empathy when it comes to global citizenship after seeing a set of images from Reuters. In these photos, newborns and their parents along with hospital staff are taking shelter in the basement of a Ukrainian maternity ward after air raid alerts.

Having my son and a last minute C section was such a huge and overwhelming moment, I can’t imagine having the stress of worrying about a potential bombing in the midst of that. So when I think back on my relatively cushy hospital experience, I realize I have a lot to be grateful for. And I feel even more for those parents in Ukraine who are bringing new life into the world in the midst of a war.

a grandmother and mother embracing a newborn

So how do I foster gratitude and empathy in my child? While I have a 2 year old who probably isn’t processing much about what is behind the words thank you, I can still introduce him to this phrase. And more importantly, model the sentiment behind “thank you”. I can show him and teach him how to appreciate the good things in this life. 

Verywell Mind cites studies showing the positive relationship between gratitude and happiness in kids as young as 5 years old. And for older kids, they cite a link between gratitude, giving social support, and improved mental health.

Standing Together as Global Citizens

group of people standing and holding hands

As I sit here and wrap up my thoughts, I realize the irony of talking about global citizenship as Ukraine fights a war against Russia alone. While other countries are imposing sanctions on Russia, sending military equipment to Ukraine and opening their borders for refugees, they are not sending their troops into Ukraine to help defend the country. 

While so many people around the world and leaders of other countries are acknowledging the tragedy of what is happening in Ukraine, they also acknowledge that Russia is a superpower. With more nuclear weapons than any other country. And they fear escalating a volatile situation into what could potentially become a world war.

While I feel helpless when watching footage of residential bombings and exhausted refugees, I am determined to be a better global citizen going forward. And to raise my son to also value global citizenship and humanitarianism; to recognize the non-negotiable value of other humans walking around on this earth. Through multicultural awareness, gratitude, empathy and collaboration, I believe we can be better.

Please use the space in the comments below to share any thoughts or feelings regarding this post, thank you ♡

DIY Toddler Toys for Creative Play

DIY Toddler Toys for Creative Play

Sometimes the best toddler toys are the ones made from the contents of your recycling bin! 3 of my toddler’s favorite play activities involve toys we made out of cardboard boxes; Car ramps and jumps Ball hoops Forts And aside from costing nothing, DIY toddler toys have